Nicolette Writes

Professional Freelance Writer and Stay-at-Home Mom

Archive for the month “March, 2012”

Having A Cold (or Sinusitis?) During Pregnancy


Sorry about being so quiet lately… I developed a cold. I actually think, or according to What to Expect When You’re Expecting, it is now a sinus infection. Thing is, if you develop a cold and you ARE NOT PREGNANT, there is some pretty powerful stuff you can use to feel better. BUT, seeing that I am pregnant (39 weeks!!), I have to make do with panados (whaa! It’s like sweets!!) and a mixture of salt, baking soda and water… gargle, gargle, sniff… not pleasant.

Love,
Nicolette

Angus Taylor’s Statue Destroyed – Stellenbosch


Hi, this is Nicolette’s husband speaking, again… and this time I’m extremely pissed-off. And it’s not about a recipe that turned out badly…

During the past week vandals destroyed artwork in Stellenbosch, again… some drunken animals felt it is funny to savage a statue that was donated by the artist to the town – utterly disgraceful.

My family has strong ties with Stellenbosch and its University. My great grandmother was one of the first three women to graduate from the University, the J.H. Neethling building is named after my great-great grandfather and my maternal grandfather studied here. As did my mother and wife.

But talking about my grandfather…

He did not only study at Stellenbosch University, but played for Maties (first team rugby and cricket).

Once in a disagreement with my grandfather, way back in the 1920’s, a snobby fellow student told this Natal dairy farmer’s son that he must remember that the cream of the country studies at Stellenbosch. My grandfather’s answer was simply that you must never forget that cream also has scum on it (“room het ook skuim op” in the original Afrikaans).

It seems that the times didn’t change much from those pre-Great Depression years and that in these Great Recession/Sovereign Debt Crises days cream still has (a lot of) scum on it.

Thanks to these idiots that destroy public art, I’m so glad I studied at the NMMU – we Uppies might not be seen as the cream of the country, but scum is less evident in milk than on cream.

Andrew Thompson Commits Suicide – and people STILL think Depression is made-up nonsense?


If you are not from South Africa, you will probably not be familiar with the name Andrew Thompson… in fact, neither was I… I always just thought of him as Fanie from the Afrikaans movie series Bakgat. Well, ‘Fanie’ committed suicide. ‘What?! How is this possible!?’ is probably what you are thinking, imagining ‘Fanie’, whom we have come to know as the extremely sweet, comical, funny and happy character on our television screens.

The first thing I thought when I heard that he committed suicide was: ‘And people STILL think depression is not a series illness?‘ There are still people who believe that depression is a made-up thing – an illness of the time, that everybody gets some time or another. That depression means merely feeling ‘down’ and that these people should ‘pull themselves together’ and look at all their blessings…

Will you tell someone with a broken hip to pull themselves together and go out for a walk? How can we be so insensitive to an illness that is so real? Just because you cannot show physical evidence for its existence, like an arm in a cast, or a bloody, stitched up toe, doesn’t mean it does not exist. It just makes us uncomfortable, doesn’t it? It especially makes those personality types uncomfortable that think of ‘sensitive souls’ as weak people.

May we move beyond our narrow-minded ideas when it comes to Depression: Depression is not a mood (as in ‘I am angry, frustrated, depressed’) – it is an illness with a capital ‘D’. It does not merely mean you are having a ‘down’ or ‘off’ day, and you cannot merely fix it by looking at the sunshine. Wake up, people, and reach out to those who suffer from Depression as if they are going through major surgery – you are treading on such sensitive ground when working with people who suffer from Depression.

Whether ‘Fanie’ or Andrew Thompson suffered from depression or not, this death has got to make you think… if someone who seems to have it all (fame, popularity, LOVED and adored by his country’s people) commits suicide – he was NOT just having an ‘off’ day.

Love, Nicolette
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